The
Auto-Bond:
A Personal Growth Relationship
We grow up in a world hearing this fairy tale. However, the real Cinderella wasn’t always a Princess and was on house-arrest. Cinderella was demanded to take care of her step-mother and two-step sisters. Therefore, Cinderella was Invisible, Bad and Disrespected. In Cinderella’s eyes, her step-mother and sisters had to be Visible, Good, and Respected otherwise she couldn't survive.
Serena Jade lacks the basic dependency needs one needs to grow and thrive. She has been rejected and abandoned and in order to survive, Serena Jade has to create a fantasy...her mother and two sisters are visible, good and respected. Serena has to be invisible, bad, worthless and disrespected, otherwise she can't survive.
Serena clings to her mother and sisters but she has no one to depend on. So, unconsciously she has to keep the expectation that they care about her going in her mind. Because no one can survive mentally without support, this fantasy is like a mirage in the desert. Serena needs this fantasy, it is her life-line.
Her mother and sisters only see Serena as their servant. Serena Jade has to stop covering up her shame by the destructive caretaker people-pleasing behavior. Will Serena ever get control over the wicked emotions of guilt and shame?
However, Serena Jade has been given a gift and was awakened by her charismatic connection experience. She is fully conscious and very intuitive. Serena has been receiving signs and dreaming about a man. She knows from the deep whispers of her soul, he is her matchless, divine, ultimate eternal love.
Serena's transformation will take years to accomplish. She needs to extinguish her fantasy bond with her narcissistic mother and sisters to create her real life dream; not an easy feat...
But first, she must meet James and as fate would have it, Serena and James form an auto-bond. The car is the catalyst for Serena to break the barrier and become vulnerable. Serena needs to become identified with her dependent side. James is in Serena's life to help her transition...
The Journey begins: Final Separation from her Family...
Seven years after Serena meets James, she moves to the desert. All alone, she confronts all her defense mechanisms. The journey is torturous and she doesn't know if she will survive.
Can Serena Jade transform from a pleasing servant to a respected heroine?
Will Serena Jade reunite with her deepest most-profound eternal love?
The Auto-Bond is Serena Jade's second leg of her journey towards the ultimate soul mate.
